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is this a song? or a known poem?
its been so long since you went away, still i have unsaid words that i need to say
i know you wont believe me girl, but i wont play.
no phone calls at night, no phone calls in the day
wish i could turn back the hands of time,
i could fix all my mistakes to i could keep you mine,
but i crossed the line and i guess its too late
im that dumb bitch 2 face who made you lose your faith
if i havnt said it yet.... baby im sorry
no time for forgiveness, just go on
forget and party. we've been through enough and i guess youve seen it all.
and i guess i lost your trust,
and i guess its safe to say that another one bites the dust.
if i could go back to the point when shit didnt fall apart
back when our love could resemble a work of art
but its different cause it isnt consistent
i guess you could just say that i really do miss it,
i was wrong and you were right
i was dark and you was light
You were everything girl cuz you left my life tight
It is a song for Shiny aka Justin Delacruz
Which called: (I Want You Back)
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Looking back years from now
A lot the past few months Ive been thinking what i should write my next note about. But as speaking about relationships (which is my fav topic) and after talking about how great was the innocence of love when we were younger to what it turned into when you broke up I wanted to talk about something else. I could have spoken about what lies in between but with out further ado i would like to get to the topic today which is what happens when what you consider the greatest relationship ever or the best thing that ever happened to you is over. No I know you cry about it and you get pissed and then you make feeble attempts at the person who has tried to hurt and then eventually..... you guessed it !! Move on.
Thats the topic of the note Moving on! How do you do it? Drink a lotta beer and go to strip club! said an Aussie mate when asked the question. But is it that easy? The Americans studies show are the people who achieve 'Closure' earliest I know what your thinking thats bull shit I always thought my ex girlfriend acheieved closure quickest and had a guiness record or something ahhhh... may she did but then there isnt any evidence of that. So well talking about Closure and getting over it, it mainly depends on two things how the relationship ended? and did you really see this coming?
In the latter sometimes you just seem to accept the inevitable and take it with your head held high or your frustrations get the best of you and you basically just say so many hurtful things that you just make it happen earlier than it probably would have. The end of realtionship is a lot like a man dying of a terminal disease: You can either enjoy your last days the right way by spending lots of time with friends and family over lunches and dinners or you can drink and smoke your way to an early death ( As if the one that your already getting wasnt early enough) How it ended it also important. Sometimes your bitter about it like I knew she was hitting on him but I actually let him pass with that whole 'shes just a good friend excuse' or 'I told you so but you didnt care' routine, I do think that being bitter at the end of something may just help you in two ways. For one thing you dont do the whole we'l still be friends routine cause the only you would want to be friends ought to be if you see a chance of ever getting back together apart from that your just getting yourself a one way ticket to the hell pit known as jealousy. Now not everyone has to follow my lead I mean yeah sure go ahead be friends but dont come crying to me when shes telling you how great this new dude is in bed but if you can take it nothing like it.
But again how do you get over it! well for starters cry your heart out. It will help you let out all those frustrations and give you time to recuperate. Dont be worried about being a bundle of self pity coz its a part of ur healing process embrace it! and even better by the end of it enjoy it. Once your out of your 'I wanna drink my liver dead' mood or the 'Im gonna get fat and not give a damn to the calories mode' try and occupy yourself with other things apart from your ex. Two things people tend to do when out of a break up talk to their other ex' or peoplle they liked before or try and find love again even its on a rebound.
Talking to an ex wont help and Ill tell you why! either they have already found someone else or they are still bitter at you for whatever happened. In the first case it'l just make you feel worse to see how far ahead in life they have finally made it and how you are left behind or how you could have had what that bitch with big ears has today or how you would have just stayed with them and dealt those little problems instead of the big ones that came packaged with your present pain only to be ditched!! In the second case well, wake up people if they still hate you rekindling the old flame aint gonna help Mr.
Rebounds well if your women much easier for you. Someones been hitting on you forever give the poor dude a shot if he misses no big deal and if hits good for the both of you. Men on the other hand please stay off the rebound that geeky woman with Jassi sized specs in the office just aint worth the trouble and for those studds out there who are thinking 'Cut it out' i could get someone anytime... Well you aint no Shahid Kapur!! oh wait come to think of it aint he single since the break up!!..??? wake up people...
Well that brings me to the end of this note and my expert advice on getting over a relationship..
1) Cry your heart out and give yourself the time to listen to those sad songs and those boo hoo movies
2) Self pity is not a crime it is simply natural so go for it and let your friends know your not 'ok' and need them right now. Coz if your going to act like a prick and pretend not to care nobody is really going to give a shit.
3) Meet old friends and talk about a time far before your ex. (recommended for those breaking after a max of 3 years anything more than that would mean your talkin about ancient history)
4) If your a girl, meet boys show some cleavage and bask in the glory of the female form and if your a boy go out and lol meet the women showing off their cleavage and basking in the glory of their female wateva!!... go get some women with cleavage.
5) Surround yourself with hobbies and things that your passionate about like sports or travelling. Dont expect love from your soccer coaches daughter or the handsome hunk teaching you how to skydive coz chances are as soon as you get them their respective others would be looking up my note for moving on.
6) Flirt but with self respect..... you dont want to turn into a slut or a man slut for that matter.
7) Try and cut out the romance and the belief in true love out of your system and concentrate on friendship and in the process if you find love great but for the time being concentrate on meeting people and being friends....(No dont worry you can still sleep with the women showing off their cleavage.. lol jus kidding)
Let time be what it is known to be the ultimate healer and let it work its magic and just like cemo therapy itll hurt but hey your the one who wanted to smoke.. oops i mean fall in love.
9) Accept - They are gone and probably making out with someone right now!!!!!
10) Well there is no 10 see for yourself where you are an decide whats the answer. Suicide or homicide!
And last but not the least these are not 'READ NOT' tried and tested formulas. Did I ever use them for myself absolutely not!!! Im still not over loosing my G.I Joe toy back in 6th grade relationships are whole different deal but Im just trying to help other people who can get themselves out of the problem. So lots o love and god bless.
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